Deal with it (Chyking 102)

Sometimes in life, you've got to accept that you can't have all you desire. Accept what God freely gives you and forget the rest 'cause you don't need them.

That's my answer to the question about what you should do when you see a beautiful girl and you don't want to let her go. If meeting her or the sequel will break your moral principles, then don't. There's certainly a better way, if God has determined it. God will not make you go against His Word or what He's taught you to believe is right.

I've admired some boys

Some clean, cool and collected

But I knew I couldn't have them

I had 2 options

Or 3

1st to chase after them and get them by all means

2nd to forget about them

3rd to fantasize about what it would be like to have them

The 1st was out of the question for me 'cause Christian ladies don't go after men, we wait for them.

The 2nd was difficult but usually the best option.

The 3rd was my easy way.

I loved fantasy

But I quickly discovered it was a waste of time

And Romeo was never to resurrect

So I dropped it for the 2nd

And it has paid off, 'cause I've had a freer mind and I'm able to have my eyes clear to see the one for me.

So when you tell me that I don't understand how you feel, I feel bad that I had to deal with my passion each time I discovered he wasn't meant for me, but you indulge yours and expect me to follow you 'cause of how strongly you feel for me. Do you know how strongly I felt for those guys? And do you know you are not the only one with strong feelings for me? But I must marry 'one' and 'one' man must marry me.

So too bad if you can't have her.

Deal with it!

PS: when I say forget about them, I don't mean delete them from your world. I mean forget about having them as your soul mate. But of course you guys can be friends. 

That's what wise people do. 

©Radiant~ December 2013